Dumitru Tira: What would we be if we had happiness?

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The Republic of Moldova is often discussed through the lens of its challenges. We talk about salaries, migration, politics, crises, and everything we still need to improve. Too often, we measure the success of our society by what it lacks rather than by what it has already built.

But what if, for a moment, we changed our perspective? What if we tried to imagine a happy Moldova?

Not a perfect Moldova. Not a country without problems, conflicts, or worries. No such society exists anywhere in the world. Instead, imagine a Moldova where people trust one another more. A Moldova where people greet a neighbor’s success with admiration rather than suspicion. A Moldova where citizens focus more on building than on criticizing.

The first change might occur in the way we see ourselves. Too often, we define our country through negative stereotypes. We say that “nothing works here,” that “everyone is leaving,” and that “nothing ever changes.” Yet every day, people prove the opposite. Entrepreneurs invest. Teachers educate. Doctors save lives. Journalists seek the truth. Young people choose to build their future at home.

A happy society does not have to be a wealthy one. Many rich countries struggle with loneliness and distrust. People build collective happiness through a sense of belonging, confidence that their work matters, and faith that tomorrow can be better than today.

If we were happier, we might spend less time discussing what divides us and more time focusing on what unites us. We would discover that we share far more than we often realize: the same desire to keep our families safe, the same hopes for our children, and the same need for respect and dignity.

We might also stop searching for saviors and start recognizing that change begins with each of us. It begins with a simple gesture of respect in traffic, a kind word to a colleague, participation in a community project, or a decision not to spread hatred and division.

The Republic of Moldova has endured many hardships. It has faced poverty, uncertainty, and disappointment. Yet it has also shown extraordinary resilience. We have demonstrated solidarity during crises, offered generosity to those in need, and shown courage when the future seemed uncertain.

Perhaps our greatest challenge is not to become richer, stronger, or more influential. Perhaps we must learn to appreciate more fully what we already have and who we already are.

After all, a country is more than its institutions, roads, or economic indicators. A country reflects the state of mind of its people.

So a simple question remains: what if we were happy?

Perhaps we would discover that the Moldova we have been searching for already exists, to a large extent, within us. We simply need the courage to see it.